Dating and Marriage — United States

Updated October 2026 · Independent editorial content · 18+ only

Key questions for people exploring a relationship with someone connected to this country (United States). Main language(s): English. Cities people often mention when planning visits or a move: New York, Los Angeles, Chicago.

At a glance

Verify with official sources before travelling.

Editor's review

The United States is vast, with several time zones, climates and local laws. Marriage rules are set mainly at state level, so check the requirements of the specific state. Domestic flights can be long and costly.

Questions to research

• Which cities or regions matter for the relationship?
• Which language or languages will you use?
• What are your expectations about commitment and marriage?
• How will travel and visits work?
• What family, cultural or religious expectations should be discussed openly?
• What practical plans do you have if the relationship moves towards marriage or relocation?

Safety and verification

Ask for a live video call early, be wary of any request for money and never send money to someone you have not met in person. Read our guide to spotting dating scams.

Marriage, residence and local rules

Laws and social norms about dating, living together and public behaviour differ by country and change over time. Always check official government, embassy and travel-advice websites before making plans.

Official information

Entry, visa and residence rules change. Check them on the official government website: travel.state.gov

Planning a first visit

• Check that your passport (and visa, if needed) is valid for the whole trip.
• Book your own accommodation and transport; do not depend on the other person for travel arrangements.
• Arrange travel insurance and share your itinerary with someone you trust.
• Meet in public places first and keep your own money and documents.